Hugging issue

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Hugs are best way to keep warm. Not just physically but also psychologically.
When my son hugged me for letting him possess some trivia, the action said it all. And similarly, when I had tried my best to lighten the mood of my mother after an incident over which she was very hurt, all that she could say, nay do, was to give me a big hug. And she said everything in it. I was quite moved.
Actions do speak louder than words. Especially hugs, don't they?

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Tulaja said…
I am reminded of the song "Four Hugs a Day.. That's the Minimum" which was my daughter's favorite kindergarten tune
10:32 PM
Unknown said…
Hugging (Jaadu ka Jhappi) was one of the good points in Munnabhai MBBS (thoroughly messed up in the Tamil version). A hug conveys even extreme emotions - negative or positive.
4:26 PM
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